Bad Boyfriend Behavior
My boyfriend doesn’t always follow through when we make casual plans likemeeting for coffee. When I show and he doesn’t, he thinks I’m too rigid. I think he is rude. What do you think? —Signed: Left Hanging
Dear Left Hanging:
I think actions speak louder than words. And that is my rule of thumb when guaging behavior. In my heart of hearts I also think it is a lack of real caring or a form of manipulation to keep you guessing. Either way – it would drive me batty. I’m a straight shooter and unreliable is a trait I don’t do well with.
The classic response from the self-help books is that he doesn’t respect you or your time etc. I just think it’s rude and if it happens a lot, move on. You definitely deserve a man you can count on. If he’s MIA for the small stuff, what do you build on?
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