Draining Friends

>I have a friend who always asks me what she should do? It’s getting to be too much… Signed: Enough Alreadyblockquote>

Dear Enough Already -
A good friend once reminded me that everything in life is fleeting. No doubt you too had a time in your own life when you asked your friends over and over whether you should cut bangs, break up with your boyfriend or quite your job before you get a new one. Bouts of indecision come and go. Usually we are working something out, trying to create change in our life or seeking a reality check from those we count as friends.

Set limits on when you’ll have your “doctor is in” sign up. She may know the answer deep down and not want to admit it. hell sometimes we all just get weary from having to take care of ourselves all the time. Who doesn’t want to foist a tough decision on someone else rather than be responsible for it. Doesn’t it just seem easier at times for someone to just tell us what to do?

Give your firend support, but don’t put pressure on yourself for whatever’s stressing her. She’s gotta work it out and if it’s getting on your nerves – a little straight talk may be in order.

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